Weddings can be pretty stressful – we all agree with that! Being a bride, the centre of attention, with hundreds of eyes on you, without a doubt can make you feel overwhelmed. But why sweat when you have your army of bridesmaids to support you?
Be it your cousins, your BFFs, or old school friends, your bridesmaids will be by your side on the most important day of your life. They never hesitate to help you out in every possible way as you plan a magical wedding.
However, being a bridesmaid can be a thankless job and they often don’t get the recognition they deserve. If you are a bride, then here are a few easy-peasy and affordable ways you can make your bridesmaids feel special and recognised for their efforts.
Organize a Dinner or Lunch
You don’t have to wait till the end of your wedding night to thank your bridesmaids when you can shower them with love beforehand. Why not plan a nice dinner or lunch at a fancy restaurant for them?
After a long shopping day, you can enjoy a nice meal if you all have a shared favourite eatery. Even if you’re on a tight budget, a simple burger meal will cheer up your girl squad and make them feel loved.
Plan a Proposal
Yes, you read that right! Why not ask your girls in a unique way and have them say yes to be your bridesmaid or maid of honour? Indulge your artistic side and send them hand-written notes or photo collages to add a personal touch.
You can even have a goodies bag delivered to their doorstep with a note asking them to be your bridesmaid. If they live miles away, you have the option of travelling and inviting them personally. It would show how much you care about them and want their presence at your wedding.
Plan a Fun Photoshoot
Photoshoots are a big part of the wedding, so why not involve your girl squad too? Plan a lively themed photoshoot where they can be themselves and get beautiful pictures taken.
Hire a professional and have a wedding portrait done with your lovely bridesmaids. You can even frame it and give it to them as a gesture of how thankful you are for their efforts.
Throw Them a Surprise Party
Planning a wedding does not always have to be all work, shopping and picking up flowers. Go all out and organize a fun-filled party for your bridesmaids with snacks, wine, champagnes, and bachelorette party games.
This will let you all unwind and let loose, and have some fun before the big day! A surprise party will not only make them feel loved but also give your bridesmaids a chance to know each other and bond over a glass of wine.
Plan a Spa Day
Yes, we all know the bride needs all the pampering and attention. Well, why not plan your spa day with your girls and pamper them with pedicures or hair treatments too? Treat them with calming head massages or pretty nails for all their efforts and patience.
Opinions Matter
It is vital to consider your bridesmaid’s opinions, even if when it comes to the tiniest details. You don’t want to be that bride who fails to consider their feelings and plan everything to your liking!
Your bridesmaids’ input does matter for many things you may need help with. For example, once yo’ve chosen your bridesmaids, you can consider their style before picking their gowns. Go ahead and give them the freedom to select their favourite shade or the designs of their choice.
Thank You Cards
Personalized thank you cards can go a long way in showing your gratitude towards your beloved girls. You can write down your thoughts and express them through words rather than splurge on expensive gifts. Who doesn’t love reading a personal letter in this digital world?
A hand-written note addressed to all your bridesmaids shows how much you care for them and are grateful to them for having your back. As much as they would love a thank you call, they would appreciate a personal note even more.
Book Accommodation
Some of your bridesmaids may have to travel miles to attend your wedding and be by your side. It’s your duty to take care of their accommodation and other requirements.
Offer to book them a hotel room for them to refresh and rest after their travels. If booking a hotel room is a bit pricey, you could consider renting a house for all your bridesmaids, which will be easier for them to coordinate as well.
Personalized Bridesmaids Gifts
Why limit yourself to just a thank-you note? You can go all out and get your favourite girls exciting goodies and personalized gifts. Ranging from photo collages and jewellery, to things they would find useful are excellent gifts for your bridesmaids. You could also try personality relatable gifts like books, make-up, cuban links, nail art, fitness stuff, etc. Personalized gifts are the classic way to end the wedding on a joyous note for both you and your lovely bridesmaids.
Wrapping Up
While wrapping up your wedding, don’t forget to raise a toast for your bridesmaid team. They will witness all your mood swings and tantrums and will do anything to calm your nerves. So why not treat them and shower them with all the attention they deserve? Plan that girl’s night you always wanted to, take a road trip, send them presents, host a dinner and show them how much they mean to you!
